You may remember episode 68 on counterfactual thinking (why we ‘what if’ and ‘if only’). That episode and the Inc.com article I wrote on how to break the negative cycle of ‘what if’ thinking were incredibly well received. That episode talked about the different types of counterfactuals – upward or downward, omission or commission, and usual or extreme. Today, I’m going to build on that and talk about the difference between a prefactual and a counterfactual. I’ll explain how they can work differently to help you achieve goals (building on last week’s episode as well).
Goals are so important at this time of year. As the year is ending, you’re looking back at what you have done, what you could have done, and also looking forward at what you can do in the future. This is all counter and prefactual thinking in action, and as I’ve already said, they can be a huge aid in reaching goals…or a massive hinderance. Understanding how they work is a big step toward being able to use them to your advantage, and that’s really the point of this episode.
Before we jump in, I want to remind everyone that the cart for the Brainy Mindset Course is now open! Claim your spot by November 1st. The first of our six weekly live training sessions begins on November 5th. There are also lots of worksheets and a dedicated Facebook community where I will also be answering your questions. It’s going to be amazing, and we already have some fantastic people signed up and interacting in the group and getting a jump on things.
